You Won’t Believe How Little this Mom Spends at the Grocery Store

Two hundred bucks per month.  And I swear she’s a real person:  I’ve met her, and she breathes and laughs and has birthed three adorable kids.

Kara Riedl, co-founder of our local chapter of MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers), wanted to take care of her children full-time when childcare costs rose as her family grew.  So she and her husband sat down and figured out how much they would have to cut back so that she could quit her job.  Her efforts on reducing the grocery bill put this frugal mama to shame!

In a talk she gave to a MOPS meeting called Eating Well on a Budget, she laid down how she did it.  You can read all of her tips on her blog, Just Simply Live, but here are some of the highlights:

1.  Open a separate bank account for groceries

Put a set amount in each month, so you don’t go over and you don’t have to keep track of your grocery spending.  If you find you can spend less, deposit a smaller amount the next month.  (Many banks will do automatic transfers.)

2.  Plan your meals for the week

Kara reminded us that 27% of the food available for consumption is thrown away.  How often do we toss moldy bread, spoiled milk, or green cheese?  Sticking to a plan and a list helps eliminate wasted food and thus wasted money.

a.  Make a master list of:

  • your family’s favorite meals
  • healthy meals
  • meals you want to try

b.  Choose a meal from the master list for each day of the week.

c.  Write up your grocery list (while you are in the kitchen so you can check what you have).  Add breakfast, lunch and snack items.

3.  Stick to your list

In this meal-planning system, if we veer from our list we risk overstocking or making impulse buys (usually on snacks or sweets that can prevent us from cooking and eating healthier foods that spoil if not used in time).

4.  Don’t go to the best supermarket

Do you have a beautiful, delicious and overall wonderful grocery store in your area?   Don’t go there.  Here in Central New York, we have the blessing (or curse) of having one the country’s most highly-praised grocery stores, Wegman’s. Kara hates it.

All the gourmet, international, pre-prepared, organic and luxury choices can do major damage to your will — and your budget.  If you have a choice between an upscale store and a down-home one, observe your shopping behavior in both.  If you find you are a better person when you are presented with fewer temptations, maybe you can save the sushi aisle and olive bar for special occasions.

5.  Make your own food — and we’re not talking about dinner

I was all proud of myself for cooking meals almost every night until Kara revealed all the things she makes from scratch: bread (see her recipe below), yogurt, granola, fruit leather, trail mix, smoothies, kefir, and peanut butter.  She buys the raw ingredients (like flour, nuts and dried fruit) in bulk at an Amish store to save even more.

Plus she cans and freezes in-season fruits and vegetables.  She makes blueberry and strawberry jam, apple sauce, pie filling, butter, pickles, sauce, and salsa.  And she freezes veggies like beans, carrots and corn.

What the $200 Does Not Include

  • A lot of meat. Kara’s husband is a no-meal-is-complete-without-meat kind of guy, and his brother runs a farm.  So the family buys an entire cow, which lasts about a year and a half, as well as a pig occasionally, which also lasts a good while.  (They store the meat in an extra freezer.)
  • Farmer’s market stuff, where she is known to buy gallons of honey (remember, buy in bulk) or baskets of cucumbers to make pickles.
  • Milk. Kara buys raw milk which is delivered to her house by a dairy and she pays cash (about $22 per month or less if she doesn’t need to make yogurt).
  • Toiletries. Since non-food items are usually more expensive in a supermarket, she buys them from a separate account at Target.
  • Honey Do. Last minute trips to the store where hubbie has to pick up some ingredients for dinner.

I’ll let that final piece segue into a point Kara made over and over in her talk to our group of moms.  No one is perfect.  Even her!  Sometimes the plan will be for chicken parmesan and she’ll heat up chicken nuggets.  Just because.  Sometimes she throws out boxes of stale Triscuits.  Sometimes they do McDonald’s drive-thru.  Most weeks she spends $50 per week on groceries, but sometimes she goes over.  Sometimes she goes under.

As Meagan Francis notes in The Happiest Mom about extremely simple meal planning, don’t let perfect be the enemy of good enough.

Kara’s Bread (or “The best whole wheat bread…EVA”)

Cost:  $0.50 per loaf

Yields 3 loaves

  • 2 tablespoon yeast
  • 1 tablespoon salt
  • 3 tablespoons sugar (raw if you have it)
  • 3/4 cup brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup butter (melted)
  • 3 3/4 cups warm water
  • 6 cups wheat flour
  • 3 cups white flour (I use a high gluten flour and occident flour blend)
  • More flour for kneading

In a large bowl combine yeast, sugar, and warm water. Let sit for a few minutes (it will get a bit bubbly). Then add remaining ingredients except the flour. Combine well. Add flours slowly and form into a ball. Knead for 8-10 minutes on a floured surface, adding flour to eliminate stickiness. Place in a greased bowl, cover with a towel. Let rise 1 hour until doubled.

Punch down and divide into thirds. Place in 3 pans and let rise until doubled (about 30 mins).

Heat oven to 375 degrees, and bake 30-35 minutes.

Do you know how much you spend on groceries? What are your strategies for keeping costs down? Share your thoughts in the comments section.

Photo credit:  bread.  All other photos from Kara’s blog, Just Simply Live.

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14 comments

  • Say Mmm November 7, 2010, 12:29 pm

    Very impressive. Whether you get to $200 or not, it is great how Kara’s example highlights that through creativity and smart planning you can eat better while saving money. Using master lists and grocery lists are great for saving time, and addition to the savings from wasting less food and steering clear of impulse buys, there is also the fact that grocery prices can vary dramatically by season or even from week to week, and learning to pay attention to this can save you a lot even if you don’t have time for coupons. Like if grapes are less than a dollar a pound and taste better in the summer, and over 5 dollars a pound in some parts of the year, seems smart to learn to enjoy grapes more in the summer :)

    • Amy November 9, 2010, 10:43 am

      Thanks for pointing out these tips, Brian!

  • Kara November 5, 2010, 8:50 am

    Hi Girls,

    When I gave my “talk” I did not mention how much I actually spend on groceries until the very end. I wanted the mom’s to come up with their own amount because there are just so many factors involved (family size, age of kids, dietary restrictions). The most important point is to STICK TO YOUR BUDGET and ALWAYS look for ways to save money while eating healthy.

    • Amy November 5, 2010, 2:42 pm

      Hi Kara,

      It’s true — we were all blown away when, at the end of your speech, you revealed the amount you spend at the supermarket. And you did a great job of not intimidating us with your funny, self-deprecating style, and by all those admissions you made before you started about sometimes eating junk food, fast food or not-budget-friendly food.

      You go girl!

      Amy

  • Sarah Eiley Cowherd November 5, 2010, 8:26 am

    Wow, Amy – you took great notes at MOPS! I have learned a lot from Kara, too! Love sharing tips and recipes and ideas with her. Cooking from scratch can be a lot fo work, but it is SO rewarding to know you are saving big bucks and nourishing your family. Thanks for posting all of her tips here!

    • Amy November 5, 2010, 2:39 pm

      Hi Sarah,

      I’m glad you liked it. You are so next! I know people would love to hear your tips about eating organic on a budget — most people, like me, are very frustrated by having to spend more at a time when we are all trying to cut back.

      Thanks so much for coming by and commenting!

      Amy

  • Melanie November 4, 2010, 9:46 pm

    Aghh, I won’t even say how much we spend per month on groceries. It’s way too high. But the problem in families with both parents working full time is simply the issue of time. I feel like we have no time to cook well, or plan well, or even think about being more frugal. I know I could cook on Sunday night for the week, or use a crock pot, etc. but frankly sometimes it’s enough to keep the fridge stocked up for a family of 6 (3 kids, parents plus an au pair). Would love tips on how to be a frugal mama when time is of the absolute essence!

    • Amy November 5, 2010, 2:20 pm

      Hi Jen and Melanie,

      I totally know what you mean: saving money means spending time, and we don’t always have a lot of that — especially with kids and jobs.

      This seems to be an important issue for a lot of us, so I’m going to work on finding solutions for people who are really pressed for time.

      Thanks again for commenting!

      Amy

  • Jennifer November 4, 2010, 9:20 pm

    Oh, if only! I was down to around $60-75 per week for our family of three when I was at my best, but somewhere along the way I just totally burnt out and couldn’t find the time to hunt coupons or meal plan. I used to be so much more organized, even had a coupon binder. Lately I have been running to the store several times per week, and never seem to have clear meal plans. Being frugal is a job in itself, and I guess on top of being a mommy, a wife and doing freelance work it just became frustrating to think through every aspect of grocery shopping in the rare downtime that I had.

    But I do want to get in track. I NEED to. Thank you for another helpful post!

  • Shannon Maida November 4, 2010, 8:58 pm

    I am in awe! Somehow I manage to spend about $150 a week for a family of three- one of which is a picky 2 year old- and I am clueless as to how to cut down on costs. This was such an interesting article!

    • Amy November 4, 2010, 9:02 pm

      Hi Shannon,

      I know, I spend A LOT more than Kara, and I was in awe at her resourcefulness too. I’m sure it all takes time, but at least there are options for people who can afford to spend more time and energy on reducing the food bill.

      Thanks for stopping by!

      Amy

  • Monica November 4, 2010, 8:45 pm

    Yes, I’m impressed that she makes everything from scratch, that’s awesome! But I honestly don’t understand why her monthly food bill would not account for the meat, milk, and farmers market foods. And the last “honey do” list? That could be a lot of money for all we know. That’s a huge portion of what her family probably eats.

    • Amy November 4, 2010, 9:00 pm

      Hi Monica,

      Yes, of course her total food bill will be more, but even if it were double what she spends at the grocery store (which I doubt), it would still be very low for a family of 5.

      Food costs are so hard to calculate: really we should take into account food cooked at home and eaten out, because — ironically — someone who eats out a lot is going to have a lower grocery bill!

      Plus, I buy a bunch of other stuff at the grocery store, like paper and plastic products, occasionally home goods like lightbulbs, chocolate (lots of it) and alcohol. But it all goes in “food” on my budget, because it was bought at the grocery.

      (If I were a researcher, I would divide it all out, but I’m not that pernickety about tracking our spending.)

      Anyway, you bring up a good point, and I’d like to explore these issues further in another post, in which I examine my own spending on food.

      Thanks so much for writing in!

      Sincerely,
      Amy